My achilles heel/fear to share and work on this year is this:
I have a fear of not doing things correctly.
This feeling has been with me for as long as I can remember. It often holds me back and other time drives me forward.
Doing things correctly as a child, a teen, and even an adult has helped me to blend in, offered a form of protection and manages my anxiety. Propriety and perfection is ingrained in my psyche resulting at times in a deeply rooted mental block. And sometimes to avoid all of this, I simply procrastinate.
When doing forms or applications I’m trying to balance proper technique, sequence, transitions and flow, intent, and power with control, to letting go and just doing it. And I know amazing things can, and will happen when I get to that state of letting go. I know this because there have been times when I’m in the moment, not thinking, just doing and I can feel the natural ease and fluidity of movement.
The feedback from Saturday’s beta forms has been extremely valuable and ties in perfectly with what holds me back and a theme I keep hearing of letting go. After talking with Sihing Shira Csillag, I have another piece of the puzzle to help me smooth out the edges, develop better phrasing and reduce the precision aspect of my forms. Not quite letting go yet, but tools to help get me there.
There are times where I get frustrated and feel stuck. The phrase "This too shall pass" has been on my mind lately. It's interesting how I don't think of it nearly as often when things are going well. (Something to add in a positive way going forward.) Patience, perspective and effort is required. Experience has taught me to trust the process, communicate, ask questions and remain open to knowledge and information that comes my way.
This is going to be a very interesting journey this year with tons of potential.
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