Full circle

When I think about coming full circle I appreciate the paths taken and distance travelled. I also appreciate where I am today as a result and I am thankful for the lessons that continue to shape my journey.

It could feel as if one is starting over again with never ending lessons looming overhead, in an ongoing pursuit of mastery. And I could ask myself, "At what point does it all get easier and why am I not able to stay on track?"  Fortunately I don't get stuck in those negative thoughts. 

Now, when I think about coming full circle, I feel gratitude, the abundance of life and am able to celebrate all that I am and all that I have. This awareness and positivity helps me to recognize and embrace my ever expanding box of tools. It is these tools that will help me navigate and continue on this ever changing circle of life. 

As I continue to move forward, experience success along the way and all too often struggle, I am reminded of some key lessons learned and valuable tools picked up over the years. This is a valuable reminder to myself to brush off and polish up some of the tools that can get rusty or forgotten.

Key lessons and Valuable Tools

No regrets - Say yes to opportunity and live life to the fullest of my ability in a given moment. I have had to push myself many times to take part rather than simply observe. Being a part of the IHC team over the course of numerous years has given me many opportunities to expand my bubble. As a result I've done more and accomplished more than I thought possible. Even though I still struggle with this, it is at the forefront of my mind and gives me the power to help better shape my life.

Self Expectations - Expectations need to flexible so ego doesn't take over and become a barrier to growth. "I had created an idea in my mind of what I wanted for personal growth, and was let down by the results. Not blaming the program, but instead blaming myself. This was a barrier I created in my own mind. When I quit looking at what I wanted out of the program, I was able to actually see what I had received. The barrier was removed." This is one of the most significant discoveries learned at the end of my first year on the IHC team.Voicing this dissatisfaction led to a conversation and some deeper self reflection expanding my perspective and opening my eyes. This is also where I first understood the power of self reflection and blogging.

30 seconds or less - Just imagine what a person can get done in as little as 30 seconds. While it can be mentally challenging to block off larger chunks of time, we all have numerous 30 second moments throughout our day. This is a concept that has helped to motivate me, increase my awareness so I can recognize these valuable moments and provides satisfaction. It started with a few pushups and sit ups and evolved into pretty much anything. I can pack a healthy snack, wipe a counter or a quick tidy, practice gratitude or do some mindful breathing. "I am taking advantage of those often overlooked and under used moments in time and making them count for something."

1/12 of a Teaspoon - "Did you know that the life of a worker bee is 6 to 20 weeks depending on the time of year? Most of that time is spent gathering nectar. And in their lifetime they will only make 1/12 of a teaspoon of honey. All their work is done for the colony, helping future generations and not the individual bee" When I'm having difficulty recognizing my contributions and the efforts I perceive myself to be making, I think of the worker bee. As I move through my day everything I do matters. My efforts and contributions to myself and the world around me matter. I could produce 1/12 of a teaspoon in a minute, an hour, a day or a month. What's important is not discounting the size or quantity or my efforts. What matters is consistent effort in some form or another.

Frantic or Calm - How do I train or do anything in life? The beauty in this for me was taking the time to compare the opposite of frantic and calm. While I didn't consider my training to be frantic, it also was not what I would describe as calm. 

Frantic definition - hurried, chaotic, disorganized, time crunch, fixated
Frantic Antonym - calm, composed, relaxed, balanced, grounded, moderate, peaceful

Keeping this in front of me helps to ground me and embrace my journey.

Thank You Ego... - Thank you ego, move aside, I've got this! This a very powerful mantra for me. It helps me to manage my anxiety, it keeps my strengths in check and addresses my weaknesses without invalidating myself. More and more I am recognizing my ego in motion

Coming full circle is part of pursing mastery if done with awareness and reflection. And when I think about effortless effort, I realize mediocrity only sets in at that point when there is a lack of awareness and the desire or motivation to pursue more. With awareness and the pursuit of more, effortless effort can lead to mastery.

Self reflection, awareness and the multiple tools accumulated will continue to help me as I navigate this next cycle of life. While my year has not turned out at all like I had planned, there is so much I am learning and grateful for. 

My starting point has moved a great deal from when I first joined the IHC all those years ago! 

I feel Content

 I feel joy, I feel gratitude, I feel blessed and then there are times when I feel moments of stress, frustration and mediocrity. 

I'm experiencing more and more awareness of self, individual uniqueness and the world around me. Things are coming full circle, in a natural evolution of my humaneness. 

More to come on this….

Have to Mindset

My daily intake of food has been what I would consider mostly healthy for a number of years now. Refined sugars have been significantly reduced and very little processed foods are consumed. There was a time where I practiced intermittent fasting daily and had a pretty solid routine of alternating between lemon water and a drink made with apple cider vinegar every morning before breakfast. Built in cheat days on the weekends were factored in to help make things more sustainable long term. 

There are times when I do really well on my own and other times where I’m struggling to maintain what I’ve built. This is one of those times where I find more effort and discipline is needed and I'm finding it more and more difficult to get back on the wagon after I fall off. Food is a challenge for me. Constant adjustments and restarts seem to be the norm right now.

Recently I stumbled across a short series of podcasts on managing glucose levels. The first key takeaway is all about starting our day with a healthy balanced breakfast that consists of a protein, a fat, a veggie and a carb. Fruits can then be added if desired at the end. I do eat a healthy breakfast, but unbalanced when it comes to blood sugars.  The second takeaway is eating a veggie first at the start of every meal to help balance and regulate blood sugars. With a bit of planning and prep I’ve been able to make the recommended changes and I've noticed my energy levels have been more consistent without an afternoon slump. Something I noticed about sweets is I still want them (mostly out of habit I believe), but I'm not getting the same satisfaction from them. Hmm... that's interesting.

Change is constant so I know I need to continue to expand my knowledge and be open to new information and make adjustments rather than trying to hold onto something that may have worked in the past. I sometimes forget to ask myself the necessary questions and seek out answers because I've become too comfortable. 

So what is missing? It's my mindset and the ability to see the bigger picture. A must or have to mindset is key to building health and vitality. With the right mindset procrastination doesn't stand a chance making room for motivation to take over, which can then lead to positive results. 

Note to self: Check my mindset every morning and every hour to see the correct path forward and stay on track. 

The Power in Quiet Moments

Hand form and weapon form training has almost, but not completely disappeared from my routine these past few weeks. I don’t feel as if I’m struggling and yet I do feel a measure of failure with my inability to find time, space and motivation.

With everything happening, I find myself getting distracted by the ongoing flux between storm clouds and thunder or the flowers and sunshine. Just when I start to figure things out and adjust, life adds in an extra component to disrupt my somewhat fragile balance. 

The interesting thing is I'm not as stressed as I would have been in the past. Stress is still there it just doesn’t affect me the same way. The reason for that is I do a better job at taking care of myself and I'm able to see past the here and now while also living in the moment. My Kung Fu may look much different right now, it is however very much alive and strong.

There is a part of me that questions how much of what I'm experiencing is mediocrity slowly and methodically creeping in or mastery presenting itself in a different form. I do believe there is a good amount of mastery growing and evolving with areas of improvement to address as well. 

Something that really stood out for me today was a random unplanned moment of quiet awareness leaving me with a feeling of peace. In that moment I had a profound sense of gratitude and well being. There was no mediocrity, only mastery in the truest sense of the word in that moment. 

If I was to sum it all up... , even though I am failing in some areas, my spirit is constantly being filled with gratitude, joy and awareness for the beauty of life. And for this I feel blessed. Now I just need to figure out how to incorporate more of my forms and Tai Chi into my routine.

Beyond the surface

Tai chi has again delivered some great lessons this week. 

White stork spreads its wings has not felt good for a while now. What I thought was more of a timing issue turns out to be more of an issue with releasing. After talking with Sifu Dennis I quickly realized what was missing. I’d been too focused on releasing my hands and lost sight of the fact they are connected to my arms, shoulders etc. I wasn't committing to the release. it was definitely a aha… duh, me moment. In a good, way! 

This has also led me to thinking and evolving my understanding of contraction and expansion, both internal and external. When I apply my new understanding of releasing and incorporating more of the body, I realized this will also naturally improve contraction and expansion and flow.

Life is Beautiful

A friend commented recently that life is art. And that got me to thinking about how truly beautiful life is. I found that as I reflected on this, my awareness and appreciation grew and I could sense the beauty of life expanding and growing inside me. I felt gratitude and grounded and that in itself is a huge gift.

This feels especially important right now because having gratitude and feeling grounded is helping me to better navigate my life and the world around me. You see, my feelings are really all over the place lately. There are times when I feel a zen like quality to my life filled with peace, joy and contentment and then other times when I feel a bit at odds with many things. It feels as if I'm on a path of awakening and having a difficult time letting go of what was and navigating the ongoing expectations of our western culture. 

I know there are time frames in my day where I’ve allowed mediocrity to creep in, but even when Mastery feels like an uphill battle, it is still there and has not been forgotten or set aside. Every positive choice I make keeps me on the right path.

These past few weeks I’ve had to really push myself to blog. What keeps me going is knowing how well it has served me and keeps me anchored. I know If I allowed myself to stop I would be left with big gaps making it even harder to move forward and as I've said many times before I would not be where I am today without the blogging. 

I could allow myself to focus on only the zen like quality to my life and completely ignore the areas I'm struggling with, but I know if I was to do that it would feel like I was taking many steps backwards. Obstacles, distractions and struggles are all opportunities for learning and growth. My dog trainer reminded me of this recently. 

There are no wrong choices, only different paths and timeframes to get to our destinations so I will continue to reflect and search out answers to questions I'm not fully aware of and explore this beautiful life I'm living. 

This is currently my Kung Fu!

The Power of Eyes

Use your eyes! Look in the direction you are intending to go, is something we hear often from our instructors. So this is not a new concept and I know it has succeeded in planting some seeds. It is because of those seeds that I am able to make my own discoveries and nurture what has already been planted. 

Practicing Tai Chi in class a few months ago is when I first consciously chose to pause during a transition and look in the direction I was about to go. It was during a tricky transition and for some reason out of the blue a past lesson came to mind. I know I shouldn’t be surprised, but wow.. , looking in the direction I was intending to travel made a positive impact. 

I am learning that making use of the eyes needs to be done with the correct timing. If I don’t commit to the previous move before changing the trajectory of my eyes, the desired or optimal results are not the same. I have found that when using my eyes with intent and proper timing, it actually helps to naturally engage the six harmonies and facilitate transitions and better technique. And I've been able to connect and experience the power of my eyes during sections of all of my forms. There is still lots of work to be done and I'm sure more exciting discoveries to be made.

Change Is In The Air

Change is in the air. It's everywhere in some form or other. 

Change has become a big aspect of my life lately. It has and is playing a huge role in my personal life, various aspects of work, family and kung fu. I feel as if I've been bombarded with changes this year. A constant barrage of stuff to deal with. The work changes are the most challenging for me. And even worse I know I've been here many times before. Just stop already! Ugh...! 

When it comes to my personal life, I find it a bit easier to adapt to change. Most likely this is because I am my own boss and therefore feel I have more control, especially when the change is a personal choice or  created by me. Even with outside factors at play there is a measure of control in how I respond or react and how I take care of myself all within a safe space.

When it comes to change in and around the workplace, it can feel like things are unsettled. And when I think on this, I feel there is a component of vulnerability and sometimes even a fear of the unknown depending on the circumstances. This can create a feeling of lack of control, which I can see now has caused me in the past to resist. Being in a place of resisting and reacting makes it much more difficult to respond in a healthy way and find ways to adapt. 

What's made a difference this time around was my awareness of this as a repetitive lesson and having dealt with similar issues and feelings. It started with the awareness and then continued to build with some reflection. At first there was a bit of initial frustration having to deal with a repetitive life lesson specifically around work changes and then as I sat and considered the situation I was able to come up with a course of action. I was able to focus on responding versus reacting, which helped me to take back some control. It isn't about having control over the situation or others, rather it has been about finding my voice and speaking up in a calm and measured manner. I'm still learning that in order to set some boundaries, I first have to be clear about what those boundaries are. 

We all have life lessons that seem to be on repeat. Learning, personal growth and getting stuck more often than not are all part of our human experience. It's those repeat lessons that can be the most frustrating and also provide a huge positive impact in our lives when we put in effort and do the necessary work.

Not Much to Report

There is nothing much to report. I'm struggling to find something, anything to write about that isn’t a rehash of previous posts. At times it all feels like the same old, same old struggles. This is where I am currently stuck and motivation has been lacking due mostly to how difficult it is now to train. I have limited space and opportunity to work in training while at home with an adolescent puppy around.

Again, I half to remind myself I am moving forward even if it is at a much slower pace than I would like. 

Making the Best Choices

My wellbeing, my growth and my overall outlook on life is directly related to the people I surround myself with. Books, podcasts, and social media posts etc all contribute as well. Every time I open myself to information and positive experiences that align with who I am and who I'm becoming, it helps me on my journey. It's just another piece of the puzzle that helps to provide direction and propels me forward. As my awareness of this grows I become even more mindful and careful of my choices.

Going with the Flow

I’ve been learning to adjust more and more and go with the flow. What that means for me is being adaptable, being flexible and opening my eyes and my heart to see and appreciate the possibilities.Going with the flow is a wonderful concept. It’s more than just floating mindlessly through life though. Mastery can still be worked into a 'go with the flow mindset'.

This week is a great example of how I was able to adapt to my changing routine and take advantage of an opportunity. I've been taking Willow to the dog park much earlier in the morning and most days we've had the place or at least a section of it to ourselves. It has been peaceful, quiet and perfect for a bit of Tai Chi. And I've also been able to add in a form rep here and there. Willow gets to do her thing and I get to do something for me. We both walk away happy.

Tracking

 What gets measured gets managed!

I have experienced this over and over and yet I still struggle with consistency and finding an effective and efficient method of tracking. The problem is I do not enjoy this aspect of managing goals. On one hand there are the tasks and goals themselves to be tracked and figuring out how best to measure them, and then there is also the effort it takes to keep track of everything. 

The act of keeping track seems to at times require more effort than the task or goal itself, which really feels counter productive at times. And yet I know when I'm on top of my record keeping, I'm able to measure more accurately where I am and what I'm doing. What I have found in the past is consistent daily tracking gives me a very clear measure of trajectory and can be motivating. 

I know I can't effectively manage something that isn't being tracked and measured. So why then can I not seem to stay consistent, especially when I know that tracking helps to measure, and measurements provides direction which leads to better management and success?

Rollercoaster Ride of Thoughts & Emotions

Embracing the here and now also means letting go of what once was and recognizing when, where and how my ego tries to insert itself. 

A thought that very recently popped into my head was that I'm letting people down and letting myself down. It was a very quick, and random thought with some emotion (guilt) attached. Shortly after I questioned how much of that random thought was ego. 

Ok ego, thank you - I've got this. 

Yes, I am having somewhat of an internal challenge with the changes to my Kung Fu world these past months. For many years I was very engaged with Kung Fu, attending my own classes, IHC most years and helping out in other classes. A fairly solid routine had been built that ebbed and flowed to a small degree, but was relatively consistent year after year. The Kwoon has been like a second home for me and many aspects of Kung Fu have become ingrained in my everyday life. And at this moment it feels a bit like it's slowly slipping away. I know this isn't completely accurate and yet I do need to be careful and find ways to stay engaged.

Having my ego surface like that gave me the opportunity to look a bit closer at the changes so that I can reflect, understand and make peace with everything. It is not a quick fix but much easier to work out when I acknowledge what is happening.

What I find interesting is I don't view any of what I'm experiencing as bad, down, or failing. I actually feel resistance when thinking about and trying to attach the opposite of good as bad or the opposite of up as being down. So where does that leave me and how do I quantify what I'm feeling and where I am at? The short answer is I am human. I'm learning, growing and living and loving life the best I can. 

Sparring

It’s been too long since I’ve taken part in some actual sparring rounds which is why sparring during Tuesdays class came at a perfect time. I'm always nervous at the start and unsure of my abilities. And then, as soon as we bow in, its game on and I mostly find myself enjoying the matches.

During Tuesday nights sparring we started off at about 5% and then after a few rounds increased to 30%. Those first few rounds at a lower intensity were my best. I felt more in control and able to think about strikes and parries. When I think about 5, 30 or even 50% I think in terms of power. What was interesting though is I realized speed tends to naturally increase along with intensity. And that speed can be frantic at times or under control.

5-15 and even up to 25% at times is I think where my base line lies when it comes to technique, control and my ability to assess and make adjustments in the moment. As soon as we move past the 25% range, I can begin to see and feel less efficiency and control. 

So this tells me obviously I need to do more sparring with a partner and I need to practice at different intensity levels to learn to be more comfortable and develop the skill to increase speed in a controlled and calculated manner relative to the energy delivered.

Joy!

I continue to struggle a bit with motivation and finding opportunities to train. Less than healthy snacking is an issue with sweets and carbs being the biggest challenge and most likely causing some of my increased knee pain. 

How much does any of that even matter? Can one word or feeling take all that away...?

As I think back over my week, aside from everything else going on, there is one thing that stands out and that is a feeling of joy! 

After a difficult and challenging interaction with someone on Thursday, I needed to refresh and so I set off to the dog park with Willow. With all the fresh snow I knew she would love to run and play around in it and burn off some energy. When we arrived there was no one else around. Imagine a huge dog park with no other people or animals in sight. What a wonderful thing!

We had the most amazing time together. Willow raced back and forth, ran circles and did lots of sniffing as we walked and explored. I mostly enjoyed watching her freedom of movement and the bursts of energy. Both of us were completely free from any stress of meeting new dogs, expectations or potential issues. Free to just be and enjoy the outdoors and all that space. I remember looking up at the sky as the sun was starting to set, in awe of the vastness and beauty of it all and feeling blessed. It was also a feeling of joy that has carried over into the rest of my week.

Joy is something we can choose and cultivate at any given time. It happens in moments of deep awareness and appreciation for all that is. Joy is waiting to be discovered and is a powerful and lasting entity/force. That all encompassing feeling of joy has the power to boost the ups and minimize the downs in life. It fills up my entire being and gives me a deep sense of knowing that I can’t quite explain in words. What comes to mind is simplicity. Joy takes away the complexities of our western world and replaces it with beauty and simplicity. 

The idea and definition of mastery can be complex and is something I’ve mulled over many times and tried to define. I feel we tend to overcomplicate mastery and don’t have enough of an understanding of what we are looking to achieve and what mastery really is. I see the pursuit of mastery as a tool to find and help us achieve the greatness that already resides within each of us. All the effort we put in to get there helps to build a foundation that allows us at some point in the future to let go and just be the best version of ourselves.

I see mastery is a blend of heightened awareness, mindfulness, being present, simplicity and seeing and feeling the beauty all around us and within.

Change Starts With Me!

I'm going a bit stir crazy, feeling a bit like a caged bird unable to spread my wings. I had all these great plans to incorporate more training into my days and I just can’t seem to find much opportunity for uninterrupted time or space. 

Whatever was I thinking? I’ve gone from a mostly orderly life to disorder. Wait a minute… , I was looking to change things up and add more to my life. Well I certainly got what I asked for. Making the decision to get a puppy was not done lightly and included much thought and  research before hand, but there is only so much a person can prepare for.  Just like kids, dogs have distinctive personalities, traits and challenges to learn and work within.

This years transition from winter to spring has been wonderful with the warm weather, but there has also been too much sand, wetness and muck everywhere. It feels never ending and adds extra work/cleanup with a pup. I'm definitely feeling the disorder and mess these past 2 weeks. 

On a positive note: 

- I have added value to my life and my pups life. And as I mentioned before I'm now outdoors much more than before, walking everyday and finding opportunities to enjoy the moment.

- Something else I’ve noticed is my ability to step outside my social bubble and talk/ interact with random people I meet on walks or at the dog park. And I’m finding it relatively easy and enjoyable. 

- Another positive is I recognize these challenges as opportunities to make adjustments and exercise my ability to expand my perspective. 

Am I resisting too much in terms of acceptance or am I simply not putting in enough effort? I believe the answer is yes. There is a bit of both going on with a dollop of procrastination added in. 

In terms of effort and procrastination - I have 2.5 - 3 hours most mornings before work that could be more productive, so on Friday I put together a loose schedule for the morning to provide some direction in order to be more productive and alleviate any guilt. I think this will work to help keep me on track, be more accountable to myself and hopefully build some better habits.

Change requires opening your heart and allows for an evolving perspective and the ability to search and find the value, the vision and any future investment potential. It’s also requires practicing gratitude and letting go in order to move forward. 

Circularity of Movement

The hand form I am working on this year is MLK. My goal is to learn the entire sequence with good technique. In addition one of my personal goals is to utilize one on ones regularly throughout the year which will help me in learning MLK, so the two work together nicely.

For this weeks one on one I wanted to address a specific section I’d been having trouble with. Trying to figure out if the problem was in understanding the intent, the timing or transitions or all of the above wasn't getting me closer to a solution. After a discussion with Sifu, it became apparent it was more of an issue of circular motion. It was a bit of a light bulb moment where I quickly realized I was pausing and breaking the circle between the 2 techniques and loosing flow as a result. The first technique needed to connect and flow into the next to facilitate proper timing and power. 

What appears to be a pause is more of a transition within the circular movement consisting of variable speed and direction, requiring control, and all happening in a very short time frame. As soon as I put this into practice I was able to feel the difference it made. With additional practice I know there will be continued improvement. 

It is interesting how something I am already familiar with can resurface, and continue to teach me valuable lessons while also expanding my knowledge and skill. The seeds had already been planted with the knowing and understanding in place. I just needed a nudge at the right time to connect a few more dots, and build awareness in order to make adjustments and improve.

Here is what I’m re-establishing, learning and feeling:

Circular motion includes different planes - Forward to backward, side to side and upward to downward, all of which can occur together. Tai Chi is great for this! 

Contraction (minimize, consolidate, draw in chi ) and expansion (release, expand the internal & external, explode) are integrated into circular movement. 

Speed of circular motion and size can and often needs to change with awareness and control. 

The obvious outward/external circular movement is more efficient with internal activation and circular movement 

Now I just need to put everything into practice! 

Totals

Push ups & Sit ups: 2660
Hand form: 49
Weapon form: 54
KM: 205
Sparring: 19
Blogs: 5
Tai Chi: 45
Mindful App - 11

Tai Chi Straight Sword, Section 2

My weapon this year has not changed. I am still working with the Chinese Straight Sword and learning the Tai Chi Sword form by utilizing a number of different videos I have been able to find. I can certainly see why and how ancient forms and systems change and evolve over time. We all have our own interpretation, body mechanics and personal styles that factor in when learning a form that has been passed down. 

I remember last year as I was starting to learn the form I was able to find a video that provided different views and angles to learn from, which was wonderful because I suck at trying to mirror someone. At first I wanted to utilize just that one video. It wasn't until I ran into trouble with a particular move that I found myself looking for a different source. This led to finding a video with a complete front view and a complete back view. The only glitch was some of the moves were being done differently. I struggled with this at first until I understood the natural evolution of the martial arts and how I or any of us play a part in that evolution as traditional martial artists. My goal is still to stay true to the technique and spirit of the original form and keep it as intact as possible.

The Yang 32 Tai Chi Straight Sword form is a simplified Version of the original Yang style sword form. It is broken down into 4 sections of 8 postures and transitions. Last year I had made it through the first section and had started on the 2nd section when I ran into a tricky posture and transition. After a few attempts my brain just wasn't getting it and so I concentrated on what I already had and worked on polishing things up.

With a fresh start this year I committed myself to learning the 2nd section. Being able to slow the video down to 25% has been great for allowing my brain to catch up and figure things out. It feels like I've done just that particular posture and transition close to 1000x already. Yes, that is a slight exaggeration, LOL. Now that I can replicate the move to the best of my current ability, I will be able to refine and continue forward. I really feel like I'm making some headway.

Acts of Kindness

Wow! I received some great news this week! After about 9 months of helping to manage and provide ongoing support to my oldest brother, he has informed me that his AISH application has been officially approved and will begin receiving money shortly along with some retroactive pay. Numerous hours have been spent getting him housed, help with doctors, finding resources, completing applications and keeping him on track.

There have been moments when I've felt a bit resentful of the time and energy I've had to spend, especially given the family dynamics. After everything that had previously transpired I really didn't expect to have any contact or relationship with either of my brothers.

When he called me with the update I felt immediate relief and joy and very aware of how life changing and powerful Acts of Kindness can be. Acts of Kindness may seem simple much of the time and yet they can have huge ripple effects. 

Through all of this our relationship has improved, my dads mind is more at ease, and the effects of this resolution will help to contribute positively to my brothers overall mental health. With reduced stress levels and improved mental health my brother will be able to enjoy healthier relationships and be a more productive member of his community, instead of being a problem. There is more potential for him to enjoy a healthier and happier life. A lot is still up to him, but he has at least gotten a boost and the support he needs to take some positive steps forward.

Key to Success

A slow start or a sprint up hill right out of the gate is not necessarily an indicator of your trajectory and how successful you will be overall. I’ve had a couple slow and bumpy starts over the many years as a member of the IHC team that turned out to be some of my best years. Struggles and overcoming obstacles provide some of the best personal growth. 

When I look back at those particular years, I find prioritizing myself was a key component to success. For me this means a combination of healthy eating, practicing gratitude, yoga, mindfulness and meditation. Even if something falls off the others pickup the slack and help to carry me through. I have found that putting in the time and effort to take care of myself helps to reduce my anxiety, I’m more open and relaxed, make better decisions and able to embrace the journey and whatever comes my way.

Prioritizing myself isn’t the only variable though. I’ve learned which additional tools complement, anchor and even help to motivate me at times. Regular blogging has kept me in tune with where I am and what I’m doing. Reading and understanding mastery helps me to focus on the why and how, and push-ups/sit-ups provide an anchor and help to build discipline. For me these all provide building blocks and are foundational to my journey, which also helps me to find and prioritize the time needed for other aspects of my training. I am constantly balancing, re-evaluating and adjusting as needed.

There is a difference between working hard versus applying effort calmly and with intent.

Embrace The Here & Now

The biggest challenge I’ve been trying to work through this week has been more of an internal struggle. I find myself thinking back to the days when life and priorities were easier to manage, and opportunities to train were abundant. Looking back I'm aware of the missed moments and wasted time, but also very aware this is all part of my personal path and journey. I've learned these feelings need to be explored a bit without dwelling on things overly much. I find it helps to recognize the negative feelings happening internally and work through the issue so that I can move on and move forward. 

Forward momentum will naturally look different since the addition of a growing and active pup. There have already been more challenges to work through than expected. In addition to the challenges she also helps to keep me focused and attentive and brings me joy. Km for the year are certainly not going to be a problem with all the daily walks. In the short time she has been a part of my life I’ve already spent more time this winter outside, breathing in the fresh air, enjoying the gently falling snow at night and gazing up at the stars than any previous winter. I’m usually much more of a cocoon inside until spring comes type of person. 

Looking back at missed or under-utilized moments helps me to embrace the here and now. With the change in priorities I have gained much and am learning to make better use of my time and find new solutions. If I step out of my box and maybe do a few things differently I know I can find some new and workable opportunities and maybe even get a bit creative. As Sifu Brinker says - work and train smarter!

Part of my overall goal for this year is to build on my enthusiasm, intentionality and inspiration. And as I write this I’m realizing the struggles, the challenges and opportunities that come my way will all help me to get to where I want to be and am meant to be. 

Transition

Year of the Snake means big changes for me. I'm already somewhat missing not being on the IHC team and at the same time excited for what the year holds for me. After another inspiring and successful Chinese New Year Banquet, I can now focus 100% on the new year.

The word or phrase I have chosen for a theme this year is 'Take Action!' And when reflecting on each day, each week and each month I will ask myself if action was an accurate description. I know there is more I can be accomplishing and I want to find ways to do and be more, both internally and externally. I'm feeling really good about this years theme word as I feel it is going to help me find a better balance of the mental and the physical. 

Farewell Dragon

It’s time to not only say farewell to Year of the Dragon, but also farewell to the IHC team. I’ve very much enjoyed my many years being a part of the team and I know I would not be where I am today without it. I will forever be grateful for the failures, the successes, connections made with fellow students and the growth I've experienced as a result of pushing through personal struggles.

And even though the Year of the Dragon ends today, I have an amazing collection of blogs to look back on detailing my thoughts, my experiences, my journey and a clear direction in which to head. Reading through some of those blogs helps to remind me of how much I'm capable of and what I can accomplish in a short period of time. This record of my journey is a testament to a life being lived purposefully and enjoyed. 

The year of the snake will be an opportunity for me to continue my path of self discovery and embrace who I am as a person and as a martial artist. This will be a year of testing the foundation I have built over the years, and filling the holes and weak areas to strengthen my base. And I look forward to watching, supporting and cheering on the snake team.

Here's to new discoveries and opportunities!

Totals

Push ups & Sit ups: 40880
Hand form: 504
Weapon form: 580
KM: 1741
AOK: 1431
Sparring: 169
Blogs: 57
Yoga: 24 hrs
Tai Chi: 731
MM:1089

Appreciation!

As the Dragon year draws to a close I have an overwhelming sense of appreciation. 

It was during Thursday nights IHC class I felt a sudden sense of appreciation and team connection. It isn't that I haven't had these feelings before, it just really stood out for me that night. Those feelings continued as we paired up to support, give feedback and learn from each other. It was the individual and combined efforts of all during class that night as we worked towards a common goal, preparing for our annual year end Chinese New Years Banquet. 

As I worked through a sticky part of my form that night I came away with some solutions to work on and a renewed sense of motivation. I had already known what I needed and wanted to work on. What really helped though was talking it out and going through the transitions with someone else observing and giving feedback. Thank you Todai Thelwall!

I experienced a similar sense of appreciation again during the 2nd degree zoom class on Saturday. For me the 2nd degree class is a much needed reminder of perspective, community, connections and how important it is to continue to nurture our foundation. This particular class really helps to keep me grounded and more focused. And it helps to keep me humble as I am reminded of how far I've come and how far I've yet to go and the positive impact we can all have on those around us. 

It is interesting and encouraging to be at a place in my life where I am able to embrace and feel excitement in the effort still needed and in the possibilities of continued self awareness and self improvement. 

*Numbers to follow in a couple of days.

Clarity

When I came across this quote, I was immediately struck by its simplicity, its complexity and its truth. I found it to be very powerful and it provided some additional clarity. 

Reading this quote encourages me to be more mindful and strengthens the bond I already have with Kung Fu. It also encourages me to look deeper at what I may be taking for granted and give mediocrity a shake. I also sense an underlying message of control. Control of our actions, our emotions, our ego and how we react or respond. 

This quote gives me hope and the drive to not carry on blindly, but to actively pursue my training with clarity, purpose and passion. I'm excited for the year ahead and plan to post this on my wall as a daily reminder.

Totals

Push ups & Sit ups: 600/39990
Hand form: 6/498
Weapon form: 13/555
KM: 46/1684
AOK: 29/1393
Sparring: 0/164
Blogs: 1/55 - Adjusted total
Yoga: 30min/24 hrs
Tai Chi: 18/717
MM:23/1060

Phases & New Patterns

There is beauty, truth and much wisdom in the symbolism and meaning of each different coloured belt. Looking back over the years with that symbolism in mind, I see and appreciate my successes and struggles more. And things makes sense. All is as it should be. 

The reason I bring this up is because I’ve been hesitant to quantify my life these past couple of months as struggling. Struggling doesn’t feel quite right and yet I haven’t been able to find a word that accurately describes where I’m at and what I’m feeling. 

Recognizing the symbolism of each belt color and reflecting on my own progression from white to black helps me to have a deeper appreciation of where I started and those natural phases of progression I experienced. I realized this understanding can also help me to navigate this current pattern of life I find myself in. Having a furry four legged friend by my side has been a blessing and a challenge as I try to figure out how, when and where to add in physical training. So much has changed!

This year has marked the beginning of a new phase and life pattern for me. However, I know and appreciate the foundation I've built. With a good solid base I'm simply planting additional seeds, nourishing, expanding my horizons and opening my heart to more. The beauty, the truth and the wisdom will continue to support me in my journey.

Struggle is a part of growth. As that first initial sprout struggles to push itself and emerges from the earth, we begin to see growth and potential. This year has continued to bring reflection, finding ways to nourish existing growth, build new growth and finding ways to adjust to changes as I continue to evolve and find me in the process. So, am I struggling? A little maybe, but also not really, if that makes sense.

Totals

Push ups & Sit ups: 600/39390
Hand form: 4/492
Weapon form: 15/542
KM: 46/1638
AOK: 25/1364
Sparring: 0/164
Blogs: 1/52
Yoga: 30min/23.5 hrs
Tai Chi: 13/699
MM:24/1037

Separate ...Yet Together!

As we transition from one year to the next, I find it challenging to not get distracted by all the shiny newness and possibilities of what the next IHC year holds. I have to remind myself to stay focused and continue putting in the effort required to finish off the current year. It can be easy to feel pulled in multiple directions. This is where blogging and continuing to record my numbers really helps to keep me from falling off the wagon and stay on course. 

When I think about this years goals and next years goals, I realize there is a commonality and cohesion that bonds them all together. They are not completely separate entities. This realization helps me to feel better about the end of one year, the beginning of the next and the merging of both. I'm may be starting anew, but I am not starting from scratch.

Totals

Push ups & Sit ups: 1230/38790
Hand form: 52483
Weapon form: 11/527
KM: 43/1592
AOK: 23/1339
Sparring: 0/164
Blogs: 1/51
Yoga: 30min/23.5 hrs
Tai Chi: 9/686
MM:21/1013